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Do I need some kind of secret Domme name so people will stop calling me Miss when they don’t belong to me

Tell people who do that to stop doing it. Personally, I strongly dislike when honorifics are imposed on me. When a person isn’t…

Sorry, that wasn’t especially clear. I don’t mean no honorifics EVER. Obviously “ma’am, sir” etc. is polite in a number of non-kink contexts. I mean in kink contexts, it’s not a given and it’s not OK. I get messages all the time from dudes who are clearly writing one-handed and calling me “Mistress this” and “Mistress that.” If you explicitly say, “I like to be addressed as ____” on your profile, great. But it isn’t default.

Totally hear you on that one. Mistress is reserved for those that are mine, not random strangers. I also hate to be approached as mere wank-fodder and fantasy fulfillment, which I think is what you were getting at. Approach me as a PERSON. Show respect, yes, but don’t put me on a pedestal and offer to engage in your own kinks and try to disguise that as doing me some sort of favor. Bah.

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