The Edgier Vanilla

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I suspect that there are probably far more dominant women out there, but that they are turned off by the epically poor level of resources that are available for women, who realise that they might want to do kinky things to guys and that for many straight guys who think that submitting to a woman would be hot and are then met with this neutered, wormy vision of submission and sterile, steely vision of femdom and are turned off by it. I mean, where’s the romance? It is a terribly beautiful, intimate thing to do with another person. Why can’t we see this more? Where’s the tenderness? Where’s the laughter? The fun? Hell, kinky sex, vanilla sex, sex sex is fun and a little bit silly.

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From: The Problem with Kink is - Lipstick and Ligature

I share that longing for a more dimensional view of D/s - for a more female vision maybe. It seems we had a bad deal, and pornography must bear part of the blame.

Even on this Tumblr, the more subtle images don’t get most notes. But then, straight pornography is also exorbitant, excessive, overdone. And ugly - at least as much repulsive as it is alluring.

(via femdomstyle) Via Femdom Style Counsel
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